This was meant to be a short post to wish you all a great Christmas.
Unfortunately, while I DO hope you all had a great time, it has been simply horrific for me.
Some time back I said, to someone, I will be glad when 2023 is over.
2023 said “you think?”
First I got Covid.
Really badly.
Thought I was going to die.
After five days flat on my back, I was able to drag myself up.
Finished the antibiotics.
The slightest exertion sent me back to bed.
Am still coughing and spitting.
But, feel much better.
Then my ex boss phoned me.
To tell me my favourite customer had died.
A really fit guy who had never had a drink or a cigarette.
Such a shock.
Today I was devastated.
A young tenant and I had become really good friends.
He is younger than my kids but we just clicked.
He would walk over to my place and we would talk for two hours.
His sister sent me a message this morning.
He passed away yesterday afternoon.
He had an abscess in his stomach.
It burst and he bled to death.
In hospital.
This was the final straw.
I have cried a bucket.
Now you know why I have not been posting!
22 responses to “Granny and so it continues”
I have missed your posts, but now completely understand why you haven’t been online. I am so very sorry!! My heart breaks for you as you grieve the loss of special friends. 💔 So hard, especially hitting you back to back and UGH on Covid too! Wish I had a magic wand, would be waving it for you!! Warm hugs, my friend!💙 I pray 2024 holds a bountiful of blessings for you!
Thank you.
Wish you had a magic wand too.
Ag Granny, dis verskriklik! Sterkte vir jou en pas jouself mooi op.
Dankie Frannie.
Ek probeer.
😩. I’m so sorry. Hang in there.❤️
Thanks so much.
this too will pass.
Dear Granny, you are very often in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care
Thank you so much.
Really appreciate your kind words.
What to say. This awful year will pass and 2024 must be better. Sending hugs from across the world.
Thanks JB.
It has been horrific.
I sent you message so I’ll simply say here that you are never out of my heart and often in my thoughts. You and South Africa! All of you have done incredibly well holding up in this mess. And it takes individuals with souls like the one you have displayed over the years to get through the hurdles.
One thing is certain, we’ll never be without challenges as long as we keep our toes pointing forward.
Love to you Granny!
Thank you my friend.
I tried to do a video call.
Apparently, I am IT challenged!
Love you too!
So sad 😞
Thanks so much.
This too shall pass.
Eventually.
Oh no. Too awful. My heart goes out to you.
Thank you so much Cecilia.
Oh Granny so much, too much. Grieve as you must. Chris
Thanks Chris.
On the upside, I am physically, much better.
So awfully sad. I do hope this year will be better for you
Thanks Basia.
Now, just add guilt to the mix.
Feel terrible that I have not responded to anyone.
Never feel guilty. I had an uncle who once told me it was such a waste of an emotion. And that really resonated either way me. Just do what you feel is right at the time.
Massive hugs to you!