The above is NOT from last evening.
It was raining.
Hopefully, I will have “fresh” pics this evening.
Why am I livid?
I am furious at the selfishness of certain people.
On Monday evening my granddaughter’s(hereafter P) stepmother had a “talk” to her.
Told her she was only nice when she wanted something(not true).
Said that the rest of the time she was HORRIBLE.
Not her behaviour.
P. said that,as she had plenty of good friends, she couldn’t be that horrible.
That is was only stepmother who felt that way.
“No” says stepmother.
Your father thinks you are horrible too.
What adult says something like that?
I’ll tell you.
An evil woman.
I am not saying that P. is an angel.
What I am saying is that ,if she is handled with love, you couldn’t wish for a better kid.
I am furious with my daughter-in-law.
I am furious with my son.
Do you get the impression I am furious?
P’s mother gave her up at 13 months.
I got protective custody.
Finally at the age of five I adopted her.
My son was drinking and doing drugs.
He disappeared for two years.
Appeared very briefly and then vanished for another five years.
He has cleaned up his act.
Is sober and clean.
I am proud of him for that.
P. wanted to live him.
Reluctantly, I agreed.
It isn’t working.
He doesn’t have fatherhood grounding.
He,also,doesn’t know how to balance a demanding wife and a demanding daughter.
They completely ignore the fact that P. has had serious rejection in her life.
She needs loads of love and attention.
Oh good grief.
My stomach is burning just talking about this.
I thought venting was supposed to help.
So much for that idea.
Now I have to head for home.
Walk on the beach.
Get some peace back into my soul.